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I‘m so excited for summer bc now I only have to see my family and like that one friend who’s managed to latch on to me. am i mentally ok? I don’t know. But do I love not having to talk to people everyday and like try to distinguish if they’re being fake or for real? you bet I do.
May 29, 2025
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🌥It is summer time and everyone is out dancing and drinking, meeting new lovers or growing with old lovers. I am left watching as I work for money and for a better version of myself. My winter was wild and shocking with polycules and new friends, flirting and drinking everyday barely had a second to look after myself let alone my dog(Ted). the strangest thing is how I’m very happy not doing much, I love my own company and I’m getting a complete 8 hours of sleep with no lovers to keep me awake at night or disrupt my eating schedule from nausea. I feel wrong for this though like I should be making every memory possible, Jam Pack as many emotions and experiences as I can whilst young and it’s summer. but I’m so happy, I need to stop being mean to myself, for changing my mind on what I truly want.
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🫀i was the first grandchild/cousin, oldest sibling, weird kid etc etc so i know how to make the most of time by myself. and i do value my alone time! but i am very sick of people telling me that i need to learn to enjoy time by myself when i express frustration in not having many friends close by and/or interested in the same things as me.
most of my friends are long distance or simply enjoy different things than me. and thats fine! but it’s also fine for me to want to go to a concert with someone or go to a museum and have someone to talk about the art with. also it’s ok for me to want a romantic smooch or a held hand every once in a while. it does not mean i don’t love myself it just means i am human!
most of my friends are long distance or simply enjoy different things than me. and thats fine! but it’s also fine for me to want to go to a concert with someone or go to a museum and have someone to talk about the art with. also it’s ok for me to want a romantic smooch or a held hand every once in a while. it does not mean i don’t love myself it just means i am human!
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🤍This is not even really an anti-rec, because I have good friends whom I love dearly and a roommate I get on with very well. And I go out and see my people and I like my coworkers and the kids I work with and smile at the people on the street and try to be kind to the bus drivers and cashiers, so it's always interesting that I end up feeling this way.
There's so many people out here and yet so many of us end up feeling lonely. It's such a strange paradox. Like what are you yearning for my little heart?
There's so many people out here and yet so many of us end up feeling lonely. It's such a strange paradox. Like what are you yearning for my little heart?
May 6, 2025
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🥗I used to really hate salads. there was never any balance to them, too much lettuce or too much dressing to be enjoyable.
But now I don’t. I think salads are a really unique way of cooking bc u kind of just mix a bunch of things together, but if they go together and there’s balance, you can achieve a cohesive flavor that tastes really really good.
Yesterday I made one with cucumber, chickpeas, olives, mixed greens, granola, olive oil, and balsamic, and it one of the best things I’ve ever made.
But now I don’t. I think salads are a really unique way of cooking bc u kind of just mix a bunch of things together, but if they go together and there’s balance, you can achieve a cohesive flavor that tastes really really good.
Yesterday I made one with cucumber, chickpeas, olives, mixed greens, granola, olive oil, and balsamic, and it one of the best things I’ve ever made.
Mar 4, 2025
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Got it for 30 bucks on ebay, pretty good photos in my opinion, and the design is cool
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