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there is an art to putting together a good fit. it's not vanity but an outward expression. texture, fabric, patterns... the intention behind your adornments... all of it paramount to who you are.
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Style is communication, from you to the world and from you to yourself. There's an acknowledgment in it of the quirks of being human; how we drink the world through our eyes and how those two find particular and irrational pleasure in some images over others.
There's also more practical benefits to consider in presentation. In the best of cases, without the pressure of gazes, crafting your look may become a form of care, of preparation for the day, of grounding.
Style is difficult, nevertheless, in the same way knowing and doing what you want is always difficult. There's material and confidence limits in looking how you want to look, too. Still, I think the effort is worth something, but I can't speak for anyone else.
By placing intention on the container, the intent of the contents comes out, I believe.
May 20, 2024
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comfort has been my main focus since i was a toddler & i’m trying to honor that intuition in adulthood. i want to feel comfortable in my own skin & wardrobe, which is a challenge as a bigger woman raised in purity culture & fashion as vanity. i’m still most comfortable in modest looks & don't see that changing. the quality & texture of fabric is important to me as well. i don’t like anything that tugs or clings in an irritating way.
i’m also pragmatic so i want functional clothing that will last & i'm trying to build my mending & maintenance skills. i love leather shoes & bags, they’re so warm & classic & durable. i love buying thrifted things that have some life in them already. i love having one-of-a-kind pieces that i can make my own.
i often feel stuck between wanting to express myself through style & wanting to be as nondescript as possible. i like the validation of a good fit but also hate making an entrance. sometimes i’ll put together a look i love & then i’ll swap out one of the elements to ruin it cuz i feel too intimidated. i don’t know if this is because of social anxiety or body image issues or my feelings of not belonging throughout childhood. maybe this is my way of avoiding distraction so i can be present with the people around me.
aesthetics-wise, i love dressing like a fun auntie sometimes (typically in spring/summer) & other times i want to lean more masc with edgy streetwear looks (fall/winter). unique prints are a must, rich earth & jewel tones, classic & sturdy footwear, handcrafted jewelry with a story behind it. idk how to weave together these competing energies of warmth & playfulness, stifled rebellion & hesitant individuality. still trying to identify what i like & give myself space to explore & express that!
May 9, 2024
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silhouette and fit is key.. knowing what cuts suit your body features and learning to say no to a cute item when it doesn't sit on you quite right. personal style will be influenced by the recurring themes that you have found make you look best (sleeve/hem length, sunglass shape, neckline, etc) same goes for colors!
Feb 8, 2024
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Growing up my mom always said "always have your mini skirt and high heel boots ready."
Rewatching The Nanny I see where she may have gotten it from.
Fran Drescher is a timeless style icon. A sexy appeal that wasn't too much in your face and yet still possesed that allure.
Feb 25, 2025
Film needs to make a comeback. Dark rooms, chemicals, film reels.
I know polaroids are common nowadays but lets bring back disposable cameras, 35mm pocket cams, kodak developing centers at cvs.
(Polaroid I took at a photoshoot 5 years ago.)
Feb 16, 2025
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Honorable mention: loud music on the subway.
Runner up: Subway performers, like baby, please stop, i just wanna go home.
Feb 16, 2025