silhouette and fit is key.. knowing what cuts suit your body features and learning to say no to a cute item when it doesn't sit on you quite right. personal style will be influenced by the recurring themes that you have found make you look best (sleeve/hem length, sunglass shape, neckline, etc) same goes for colors!
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Look at the six items you actually wear and note what you like about them: is it the color, the fit, the style (casual, formal, eclectic, etc.), brand, season, and fabric.
As an example, I feel most confident in structured, classic modern outfits— I look for all organic materials (linen, cotton, silk), I tend to stick to a few favorite brands for basics, and I keep a list of what I need to replace/what’s missing in my closet so I don’t impulse purchase vintage t-shirts when I need a fitted blazer.
Thrift stores are really great for exploring your style— so are mood boards. When you see an outfit you love online, take a picture of it or note what about it was interesting.
One thing that I think goes overlooked is underwear— a well fitted bra really changes how clothes, especially shirts, hang and feel. You’ll only wear an outfit if the underwear you wear it with is comfortable. So if you have a dress you love, but aren’t wearing it because it either requires shapewear that makes you uncomfortable, or a nude/backless underwear or bra that you don’t keep in your closet, you’ll get less wear out of the item.
Additionally, know your measurements. Your body size is neutral, but language around sizing isn’t, and it can be discouraging to shop when you have a vague idea of your sizes and end up needing to size up or down. Get a soft tape measure, and get your true waist, hips, bust, shoulders, inseam, and rise. I have a very high rise to my natural waist, and knowing that helps me shop for pants and skirts with less frustration over fit.
Lastly, it’s okay for it to take time— curating your style and wardrobe should be ongoing and thoughtful; a fast fashion haul won’t help figure out what you like outside of trends, and those clothes tend to break down quickly. If you can, try to buy well made versions of your staple items— resale and thrift stores are a great place to find real leather jackets, upscale basics, and one of a kind pieces that you can’t find elsewhere.
Jun 23, 2024
there is an art to putting together a good fit. it's not vanity but an outward expression. texture, fabric, patterns... the intention behind your adornments... all of it paramount to who you are.
Feb 26, 2025
this took me some timeeee. first thing is to try not to get too upset if you can’t find sizes at the thrift or anywhere really i just tend to only thrift. i think layering is one of the first things people usually suggest when someone is looking to change up their style but idk about you, i get hot way too quickly. if u wanna layer still, try looking for pieces that are a cooler material like cotton or smth if you are wanting to layer. a staple fit for me has been a short or long sleeved button up with some jeans. i like buttoning only the one second from the top because i feel like it gives a better shape and then wearing just a plain white or black tee underneath. accessories are really good to play with, especially if you’re expecting to lose weight because other than rings and belts, they’ll stay with you no matter your size. thrift a nice pair of sunglasses, put them in your hair even if it’s gloomy! hats too, these i find harder bc of my head shape but if you look long and hard enough you’ll be able to find some nice ones. last thing, try stuff on even if you don’t think you’ll like how it looks!!!! i would get so in my head and insecure that i’d pass on things that i thought would only look good on skinny people but once i stopped and just gave it a shot i found some of my most favourite pieces
Feb 3, 2025
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