i want you to know that youre not alone - i feel the exact same way - i donât know the solution but i can tell you confidently itâs not something thatâs wrong with you so many people feel this way but no one says anything so everyone just feels more alone - one saying that has comforted me is âyou havenât met everyone else who will love you yetâ
Nov 4, 2024
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sometimes we mistake feeling alone with being lonely .
home is where the heart is, and
if you feel lost then you should look for yourself.
find out what makes you tick then youâll never feel alone because you always have yourself.
Apr 6, 2025
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iâve spent most of my life searching for romantic love and thinking something was wrong with me because i never got it. i prayed even though iâm not religious, i had a box filled with manifestations of the âperfectâ guy under my pillow, i tried to go after guys i knew were meh because i thought u could make the love blossom, i did honey jar spells, i changed the way i looked, the way i spoke, my interests, i did EVERYTHING. this all resulted in a slew of horrendous situationships that tore down my self-esteem. after these, i definitely worked on myself and became much more confident and sure of myself, but still thought that a relationship would be the thing to make me truly happy. at 20, i had my first real boyfriend and he was âperfectâ, or at least everything i thought i had ever wanted. he was attractive, tried to pay for everything, planned the most thoughtful dates, went out of his way to see me, was incredibly intelligent, kind, loyal, hardworking, took care of me when i was sick, and even respected the fact that iâm entirely celibate (like what 20 y/o guy is ok w that??). i ended up breaking up with him after a few months because i realized that a relationship was not what i actually wanted or needed, it was just what i thought about 24/7. not saying this is you, but the steps i took after our breakup might help with your situation. diversify and expand your sources of happiness/love as no one source will make you feel truly fulfilled. i started by doing 4 things: something that expanded my mind, something that earned me money, something that fulfilled me creatively, and something that fed me spiritually. for me this was college classes, a job at a restaurant, painting, hanging out with the people that i love more often, and joining a bunch of clubs at my school. i think our society places so much emphasis on romantic love, but other types, especially the love i receive from my friends has been the most unconditional and satiating. lastly, (again not saying this is you, itâs just a common reality) expecting one person to satisfy all of your need for love is not only dangerous for you (if they leave, youâll be crushed) but also unfair to them. maybe iâm just yapping to yap, but i hope this was helpful.
Jan 1, 2025
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kind of cheesy but it reminds me of who im being mean to
Nov 24, 2024
I made this card for my best friendâs birthday and Iâm very proud of it - I drew things that remind me of her like her cats and her fav movie as well as photos of some of my fav memories together - it took so long because there were so many tiny pieces of paper to cut out but I just put on a movie and in the background and had fun crafting which was actually very relaxing
Jan 12, 2025