i find this a really strange question
my partner is def not a wealthy man—nor does he come from a wealthy family. my view is is that youre not broke forever if you have aspirations and plan to stick to them then lets build that life together
broke means nothing if they’re your perfect person.
BUT
there’s the other side where if I was in the dating pool as a middle-aged woman and wanted to date around my age and met a man that was broke, How he was broke would be very dependent on whether I dated him.
Was he broke because he spent all his money on medical treatments? or is he broke because he has a gambling addiction? (i guess that could somewhat apply in my current age pool)
very dependant
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Literally… also like im broke too… i am seeking an equal partnership not someone to feed and house me hahaha
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tired of people telling me to marry a rich man. i want to be the rich man.
i don’t want anyone else’s money
Feb 22, 2025
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ok maybe I shouldn't be so gender specific but hear me out. idk what it is but men will have exactly what they want in front of them. a cookie, a job, a woman, ANYTHING. if it comes in a way that feels slightly "too easily" to them they won't accept it. Vs: I find that most women live in an abundance mindset and are often open to receiving. And then women are taught things like "Men love bitches. Be hard to chase etc." which there's so much truth to that. Yeah, a healthy level of unavailability fosters attraction. But I think theres a deeper issue here and i'm only speaking on it because I find that I often become a symptom of a man's self deprivation.
To me it seems Men feel if there's no level of aggressive struggle or hardship to get the thing they want it's either "not real" or "they can't have it because they'll lose it too fast." It makes me question if it's a level of social media's illusion of options? How we as a society accept good things that arrive to us? At what level is chasing something and fighting so relentlessly that it's "enough" for your satisfaction and sense of reward and it feels valid?
shit drives me crazy.
I know you guys will cook me for this opinion but curious on your take.
May 10, 2025
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If all the good men are taken by the time I’m ready to possibly have one then okay?? because fortunately that’s not the end of my world. nothing about not having a husband worries me.
being older and single and HEALTHY is a win.
Maybe I’ll settle down maybe I won’t. I’ll be happy either way.
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