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One of my friends is getting married in 12 days and I cannot wait for this to be over. I‘m happy for them ofc but I’m doing a lot of work supporting her and helping with events with our whole friend group (we are not in the wedding party).
I’m tired and I‘m going through my own shit. I would just like my friends back. I don’t want to talk about venue decor and bachelorette stuff anymore. It has been over a year of this.
May 26, 2025
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and fumbled attempting to chase others. I regret sometimes that I missed out on so many normal common experiences and think that maybe if I had engaged in them I could be normal but then I wouldn’t be the person I am.
I will say and this is controversial and you can stone me in the public square for saying it if you want… I recognize and respect their importance in people’s cultures and that they mean something to others but I don’t care about weddings FOR ME personally.
I didn’t grow up dreaming of my perfect wedding day and the idea of hosting an event dedicated solely to myself and my betrothed where we’re the center of attention makes me feel mortified. I don’t need to declare my love in front of everyone.
Also the concept that your wedding is the best day of your life instead of every day that you get to be with your spouse and the memories you make together thereafter is depressing to me. But I’m pragmatic and not one to romanticize things…
Apr 17, 2024
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You and Jennie seem amazing so I'm not going to try for vague relationship advice, I hope your friends and family have that covered.
But for the wedding (and honestly big parties in general), plan the shit out of it until the night before, and then don't worry about it anymore. Starting then just enjoy the feelings. You're getting married! To a really cool person! It should be fun! Let the food people handle food and the music people handle the music and trust the groomsmen and bridesmaids to handle the little possible mishaps. Your job is to take in the the people you've gathered and celebrate this new fun part of your life.
(so that's my unsolicited marriage advice from an unmarried young person, bc Matt said I could)
May 15, 2025
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I am so full of love right now, seeing friends and their family members I never thought I would see again. Sharing romantic moments with someone I never thought I'd see again after 10yrs.
I don't think I can explain the immense feeling of gratitude I have right now, it's bizarre
Jun 16, 2024
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To each their own but I fucking love body hair.
Bush is in.
(someone make a damn bush emoji)
May 22, 2025
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It’s supposed to be fun. We are just vibing. Anyways ACAB!
May 17, 2025
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Sure it has a few funny bits but it’s well past its prime. I haven’t seen an actually funny sketch in ages.
Can we talk about how they’ve been milking that terrible Domingo sketch for months now? Where is the joke?
Not to mention that terrible white lotus bit making fun of Aimee Lou Wood’s teeth. Tasteless.
May 1, 2025