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I always feel like crying after protecting my boundaries
It’s so annoying. Especially because I only do it when I’m 100% sure I’m right. I should have become a fearless bitch by now.
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@marina_agl
May 26, 2025
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@mossyelfie
Bad bitches aren’t fearless they do it despite fear because that’s what’s best for themselves or others. Be gentle with yourself, that’s amazing you were able to draw a boundary when I’m assuming it was hard for you before! Maybe those tears are all the times you couldn't. Let them out and over time it’ll get easier and easier 💗
May 26, 2025
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@marina_agl
@MOSSYELFIE beautifully said, thank you! i‘ll keep faking it till I’ll make it
May 26, 2025
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