if i’m mad at u i‘m gonna own it. if i made a mistake i’m gonna own it. and righteously so… i know that might someone upset but i tend to withdraw emotions in times like that
If you fuck up, just own it. The reaction will almost never be as bad as you think it will be and it’s always better to be straight up than hide it, cause if it swings back around you’ll be embarrassed.
I don’t know why so many people feel the pathological urge to point the blame at literally anyone other than themselves. Admitting fault is a strength, not a weakness. If you tell me you fucked something up I’ll respect you so much more than if you deflect and try to point blame.
sometimes they ARE in the wrong
personal breakthrough for me cuz i’m hardwired to fawn if my parents are upset, even if they’re upset that i’m upset lol
sister had to move out of an apartment and while i intensely displeased with physical labor i pushed through and moved her within the day yesterday. it was very hard with 2 people but we made it and i am so proud and happy for her. i told her how exhausted i was but followed up by saying how fun it was. sometimes we fight and get short with each other but being able to communicate needs and what not was very heartwarming even when we’re so stressed out
sometimes i usually just sit and think about how we have been in this solar system for so long and yet we exist in the space we are in… like sometimes when i spiral i think of how the world evolves after our generation, it’s kinda freaky idk