sometimes they ARE in the wrong
personal breakthrough for me cuz i’m hardwired to fawn if my parents are upset, even if they’re upset that i’m upset lol
if i’m mad at u i‘m gonna own it. if i made a mistake i’m gonna own it. and righteously so… i know that might someone upset but i tend to withdraw emotions in times like that
i made strawberry shortcakes and three kinds of iced teas (ginger peach green tea, lemon black tea, and ginger hibiscus rooibos), and my roommate made bruschetta! then we played Rummy and 9-card Golf for like four hours. i’m so sleepy and content :)