as someone that’s more introverted, I find that making something my own by adding stickers, patches, embroidery, etc. is such a great idea. I’m so fond of adding things to different objects that I can connect with. it can also be nice to wear accessories that I already have a connection with. it makes for an easy conversation starter, and not only that, but it won’t feel like small talk since it’s something that you actually care about. I love seeing people wear things that connect them to the things that they love and it reminds me that I need to do that more often
May 17, 2025

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yess literally when people ask about a sticker or when i ask about theirs it’s so fun and lovely
May 17, 2025
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