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this woman I work with keeps asking me when I’m having kids and I keep telling her that I’ll never have kids because there is not a motherly bone in my body. She simply cannot fathom the fact that a single 23 year old woman would rather travel and save money than get pregnant (when the country we currently live in would rather see me die in a waiting room than give me a life saving procedure.) It’s driving me nuts and I fear I might snap on this sweet old woman the next time she brings it up. Sorry if this is a vibe killer.

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introduce her to different parts of your identity. let her know that you are more than just a vessel to reproduce and flattening you to just that identity is exhausting and annoying. ask her to stop and if she doesn’t then yeah snap on a heaux. sometimes you gotta say it a little louder so they hear you. here for you <3
May 13, 2025
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And telling people about it! I’m spreading my gospel and trying to convert people. I’ve had multiple friends confide in me that they are relieved to hear I don’t plan on ever being married because that takes the pressure off them and we can have each other once our other friends settle down. I don’t like compromising, loud sounds, or sharing and I love independence and alone time so marriage really isn’t for me. Plus I have never experienced romantic attraction but dont tell anyone đŸ€« There’s so much pressure to settle down so as not to be left alone especially for women but it doesn’t have to be that way!
Feb 23, 2025
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I’ve noticed a counter culture movement brewing online where the emphasis seems to be on rejecting neoliberal ideas of individualism and increasingly atomized living as a sort of virtue for the sake of our children who would suffer at the hands of climate catastrophe or just the cold hard reality of consciousnesses. Accounts like @carnivoreaurelius or @saveyoursons offer practical advice about the benefits of high quality red meats, the dangers of seed oils, not sunning your asshole enough and soulless dating apps. They provide some respite from the nauseating reality of the current leftist ideology that’s left a lot of us childless at 30 because of eugenicist level logic like “why would I contribute to our planet’s overpopulation issue?”. Pundits like Jordan Peterson and Candace Owens have built entire careers off this grift of “no nonsense” steps to a better, more righteous life. Don’t get me wrong, are these neoconservative pysops? Sure. But at this point it’s just about choosing which psyop makes life on Earth tolerable for you. I grew up in a culture that shunned the idea of marriage and children altogether because it reminded us of the traumatic lives our female ancestors just had to accept due to their lack of autonomy. Some cope by stating how relieved they are to enjoy their 20s without the responsibility of family and that they have plenty of time not realizing how hard pregnancy is on the body after the age of 32 or how expensive it is to freeze your eggs or adopt. I was repulsed by the idea for most of my life and then it hit me about a year ago
without a solid partner and cute fat babies around, life is kind of a hollow boring nightmare.
Dec 6, 2022
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The whispers, boos and hisses that occur when I enter a room is titillating. conservative Australia doesn’t know what to do with me, I have a kind of will she/won’t she with procreation that is having them all on the edge of their seats. A reply of: ‘no I’m not seeing anyone’ at a function once made a 62 year old man faint. I live for the drama
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