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I love being alone so much that I think I need to do the opposite, but some of yall need to learn how to be comfortable being alone … like no more serial dating babe, please

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last thing i told my ex was that he didn’t need a girlfriend, he needed a therapist. i have since seen him with 4 different girls.
Apr 7, 2025
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Before my partner and I moved in together, I was fortunate to live alone and I loved that period of my life. Solitude offers so much autonomy and opportunity to do whatever the %@&$ you want!
Apr 7, 2025
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Staying single for a year has been such a game changer. Happiness is possible and mediocre men were in fact keeping me from it !
Apr 6, 2025
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@RAVENBLACK exactly!
Apr 6, 2025
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just sort of waiting until the right person enters your life and learning how to be content in the meantime is a virtue
Apr 6, 2025

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i’ve never been in a long term relationship or i was always looking for “one” and i think by doing that, i never really got to appreciate the meaning of single life. i don’t need someone to take me out, i can do that. movie dates, coffee dates, spontaneous activities -- all of these things, i always thought you needed a partner to enjoy. that’s not true at all. the more i do these things, the more fun im actually having being single. and the more i learn about myself, which is the best part :)
Mar 2, 2025
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I used to hate both spending time by myself and being single. would do whatever I could to avoid it. It made me feel unimaginably anxious Years, lots of therapy, and some really wonderfully healing friendships later, I not only enjoy spending time alone, but have found a level of peace that gives me much higher standards for my romantic relationships, rather than needing to fill the silence
Jun 12, 2024
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I often times rely on people to entertain me, or rely on them to go out and do things, which is rly bad, so I want to start being alone more and be more selfsufficient and rely on myself more. I've slowly already started this and i'm quite happy with how much better i've been :)
Jan 14, 2025

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