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looking up and realizing yr hearts wrap around one another like mycelium around tree roots.
ps this applies to all my relations.
ps this applies to all my relations.
Mar 6, 2025
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🌀kinda vague & all encompassing, but truly connection in all forms keeps me going.
this could look like love or belonging but it’s more than that! it’s a feeling of being intertwined and interwoven with Life itself.
it’s a connection to people, self, nature, animals, art, music, history, etc.
when you feel that sense of connection with something, it just feels so light and blissful, you feel involved in life/the world & less alone, you understand yourself and feel an hopeful openness that’s indescribable ✨
this could look like love or belonging but it’s more than that! it’s a feeling of being intertwined and interwoven with Life itself.
it’s a connection to people, self, nature, animals, art, music, history, etc.
when you feel that sense of connection with something, it just feels so light and blissful, you feel involved in life/the world & less alone, you understand yourself and feel an hopeful openness that’s indescribable ✨
Nov 24, 2023
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🌳sometimes u need a reminder that everything around u is alive, and so are u. the world is so big yet so small.
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Dec 1, 2024
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@mothersuperior post on latex and the yearndemic reminded me of this essay that I read a few years ago about the commodification and fetishization of the body and how it’s been paralleled with a lack of chemistry and sexuality that we used to see on screen. The title is your tldr: everyone is hot and no one is horny. The sterilization of sexuality and sex is everywhere, past even film. It’s a response to the acceleration of capitalism, war and colonial extraction of the earth. It has crept into the ways we view ourselves, our experience and our bodies.
One thing I took away from this essay is that to align yourself with traditional beauty standards will make you too tired to fuck. Similarly, the whole « working on yourself » grind that I heard on first dates all the time is this strange, individualistic perspective that makes you too exhausted and distracted for the holistic chemistry we desire. We flatten our lives to marketable lines that make us appear attractive - I’m working on myself, I’ve been going to therapy, I have a nice job and apartment. And while people are obviously horny, they don’t know for what - forming our bodies to be better, our minds fixed and correct, we can’t pinpoint what the purpose is cause we’re too fucking exhausted to investigate further than that. Love, desire, and chemistry feel more and more elusive.
For us to morph ourselves into the image of sexiness according to western beauty standards, there is sacrifice (nutrients, your current corporeal form, the ability to be perceived as more than an object, working long hours for your grind) that doesn’t align with sensuality (unless you’re into that). There is no room for the spectrum of sensations you body is capable of feeling. There is no room for desire when we’ve given it all up the capitalist war machine. :p
Mar 10, 2025
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i read this book right after leaving an abusive relationship, trying to figure out what love was for me and how i could see it in my recently shook up world.
bell hooks writes in a simple, honest language. it’s a beautiful, accessible book that humbled me and taught me how to love people and where find the love i desired.
bell hooks writes in a simple, honest language. it’s a beautiful, accessible book that humbled me and taught me how to love people and where find the love i desired.
Feb 20, 2025