got a cheeky non binary/gender non conforming friend but the use of queen or king is deeply imbedded in your mind? perhaps go off monarch ? slay my liege ?
look at them. what a statement. what a power move. your dominance? asserted. a weapon? on hand (or head). your height? significantly heightened. hotel? trivago.
nothing wrong with crying or having an emotional response to live music, but maybe some us learn to cry quietly not sob? soft suggestion, i’m empathetic but also distracted by the violent outburst of tears in the mosh pit
