nothing wrong with crying or having an emotional response to live music, but maybe some us learn to cry quietly not sob? soft suggestion, i’m empathetic but also distracted by the violent outburst of tears in the mosh pit
THIS!! i definitely have cried at shows multiple times, but i have always made sure to keep my mouth shut lol. i can not deal with people being extremely loud in any sense (even if they’re just screaming the lyrics) at shows. let me hear the performer pls!!! i want everyone to enjoy themselves but we paid to hear the people on stage, not you!
possibly a sequel to my being easily amused rec? same release or whatever joni mitchell said but everyone needs to weep more. i really think the clarified feeling you get after a good cry is one of the best.
There’s something so raw and real about crying in public. The sadness and pain or whatever other complex emotion you’re feeling is so powerful that it breaks through all social norms. something so true and human about it. I’m a public crying enthusiast #chill
i changed nearly everything about my life including myself very intentionally and in stages. through journaling and some tough decisions, boundaries, and support for what i was doing i completely altered everything i didn’t like. you can’t heal in the environment that caused you harm and my body was rejecting everything. 1. put study on hold (i didn’t quit it but just paused it until i was ready to start again on my own terms) 2. moved address to an area i love and thats right near the water 3. gained some creative outlets i would have never thought about allowing myself to showcase 4. found a workplace that i really like with people that have become my close friends 5. forced myself to move my body more 6. forced myself to eat better 7. romanticised everything and prioritised things i wanted short term for once 8. travelled!