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Someone from a dating app texted me last night saying "[...]I typically[...]am kind of primarily a lesbian lol, but you seem cool and fun and nice so am looking forward to meeting up and feeling out the ~vibe~."
As a bad queer, as someone who is usually interpreted as a gay man, my little nonbinary lesbian heart aches/flutters
Jun 13, 2024
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I cannot and will not be able to tell otherwise. My partner told me “I’m crazy about you” after we’d met (we’d been texting for a few weeks) and I was like OH COOL HE ACTUALLY LIKES ME. I have historically been a dummy for lovebombing cause I only really respond to this, but I wish more normal people had been that direct then maybe I wouldn’t have dated so many horrible people before meeting Billy. (this is also why I’m so pro dating app, because at least you know the person at least fancies you without having the guess).
Jun 10, 2024
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I went to this girl that I’ve been seeing for a few month ‘s show tonight. Shes the drummer and her band was soo good. I’ve listened to them before, but this was the first time I had seen her perform with the band. I’ve watched her play other times at her orchestra concerts and such but damnnnnnnnnn. I was mesmerized by her the whole time. After the show she came up to me before the next band played. Turned out that her parents were there so I had an impromptu meeting with them haha. We hung out the rest of the night until she had to wrap up. She walked me to my car and I drove her back. It’s confusing because we have an emotional connection and sometimes hang out without doing anything but that was the foundation of our relationship. I love sleeping with her, but I can tell we both like eachother to some degree. I’m just worried I like her more than she likes me, and we’re in different phases of our life. I love when we’re sweet together and we sometimes go on dates just to see eachother for a little while. We appear like a couple in public anytime we’re together, so it really messes with my head. I want more than what we have right now, and I can’t tell where we’re heading. Love being a lesbian, but I know my heart is getting wrapped up in this. I just hope this all goes the way it is meant to. 🫠
Mar 19, 2025
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TLDR: fine shit tried flirting with me, I ended up engaging In the world’s most awkward hug and talking about queues for 10 minutes.
My love life has been drier than the Sahara desert for the last year now. I was at a bar last week and was queuing for the karaoke I didn’t realise the girl in front of me was queuing I thought she was talking to the DJ so I unintentionally cut in front of her to the sign up sheet, she makes a comment about it I apologise and tell her she can go ahead. She comes over to me about 10 minutes later I can’t hear a word she’s saying but I thought she was talking about the queue still so I kept on saying ‘don’t worry about it, it’s not that big of a deal, we’ll just move on from it’. only after telling a housemate about this they said are you sure she wasn’t calling you cute, to which I realised she could’ve been flirting with me.
Which probably explains why she hugged me, I wasn’t expecting it so I kinda went into the hug half heartedly and ended up patting her on the back. If I was that girl I would leave because of how fucking awkward that was. She didn’t kept talking to me and asking questions about me. I think I can’t hear her still and all I hear is what is your name, I reply and I didn’t hear what she said. she keeps speaking and now I can actually hear her she says i’m gonna go back to my mates now but good luck with the karaoke to which i responded thanks you’ll be great as well I hope and we go our separate ways.
Only after leaving the bar I start to connect the dots and think huh that was a little odd she was really passionate about that queue. If you are that girl reading this I can only apologise
May 9, 2025
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1. Scroll the "everyone" feed (almost completely ignore that home/friends page)
2. Like gratuitously
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I don't search or look for anything in particular, personally, unless I'm about to post something and curious if others have done so already. Just let the river float by and enjoy the ride
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Mar 27, 2025
I know slavoj zizek is a fucking loser now, but his movie A Pervert's Guide to Ideology was the first piece of media that began to rub away the sheen/shellac of pretense that the world operates smoothly. It was my first time really engaging with a Marxian analysis and sitting with it. I was in high school, and it set me up to care about critical theory. From this movie, I'd read Mark Fisher's really quick book "Capitalist Realism: is there no alternative?" Fisher grounds a lot of his theory in culture/media in a very similar way to Zizek.
After that, I'd follow recommendations made by others in the thread!
Jun 18, 2024