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I’ve come to the ripe age of 22 and it might be the first time I haven’t cried on my birthday. Only half way through but so far kept it casual and have not let any bad thoughts come through. Replying to any kind messages but definitely not sitting and waiting for them. Woke up, went to work, currently drinking an iced chai by myself, meeting a friend later for a quick lunch and that’s about it! a regular mid may sunny day. Go outside. be kind to yourself. take it easyyy
May 21, 2024
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you know what, i’m tired of crying on my birthday being a bad thing. i’m going to make it a good thing TODAY! how lucky am i to have a life worth crying over! to be alive at all! i will not have the joy of this birthday be clouded by me inevitably crying like i always do. it is barely midnight, and i already have! and it’s all going to be just fine.
May 31, 2025
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happy birthday to me! it’s a little hard to believe that i’m 21 now—even though i’ve technically been an adult for three years now, it seems that the reality is only setting in now, and i can feel that clear divide between teenaged-me and newly adult-me. not quite sure what to make of that. birthdays are always bittersweet, and the last two particularly were filled with melancholy—but i can check this one off as a success since i didn’t even cry! i went to the movie theaters and saw nosferatu (and also bought a theater membership because one of my goals for the new year is to go to the movies as much as possible). i had the best matcha latte of my life. i went home, cut the cake (the most delicious triple chocolate cake, by the way), then watched gladiator ii with my family. nothing flashy by any means, but if there’s one thing this year has taught me, is that it’s the simplest things that bring you comfort. i hope 21 is kinder to me. i’m trying my best to keep my hopes low (since it seems the universe is always conspiring against me), so all i can do is wait and see what it brings me. cheers 🥂
Dec 31, 2024
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Yesterday was my birthday and I had a chill one. Saw everyone I really wanted to see. birthday pressure and stress is real and I like to minimise that as much as possible in the day itself. I learnt a few years ago that not having the “no one’s going to turn up to my party” feeling on my birthday was the greatest gift to myself lmao. I’m having a big party joint with @CASKEYC next month with all our friends for a big celebration, so the day itself can just be low pressure hangouts with the people I love.
May 19, 2025
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