you’re invited to a diner party at a friends’
you wanna help them clean afterwards, that’s really sweet of you. you mean well we all can tell but if you’re gonna leave food residues and a greasy touch on the dishes after washing them for your friend… please just don‘t do it
my mom lightly dated Christian Audigier when they were twenty-something
(i could have inherited a LA fashion empire but here we are) so of course i bought a Von Dutch cap, and i love to wear it when i’m with her
it’s not a burden. being specific is the antithesis of interchangeability and that’s very cool these days. when something (way of doing a task / people / clothes…) matches your little chosen and well thought-thru specificities, it’s a match made in heaven. more rare, but lasting and truthful. there is a good reason you love things THIS way. don‘t bend to tone yourself down - but keep an open mind always - and be specific
