it’s not a burden. being specific is the antithesis of interchangeability and that’s very cool these days. when something (way of doing a task / people / clothes…) matches your little chosen and well thought-thru specificities, it’s a match made in heaven. more rare, but lasting and truthful. there is a good reason you love things THIS way. don‘t bend to tone yourself down - but keep an open mind always - and be specific
