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save your energy! telling people how you want to be treated wonât make them change. if they donât learn it for themselves by experiencing it, theyâre likely to keep doing it.
May 16, 2024
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đ©I wasted two years waiting for someone to change because he kept telling me he would, despite not showing that through his actions. if someone wants to change their negative behaviors because they don't want to hurt you anymore, they will- and you'll be able to see that growth in the way they treat you. and if they're not putting in any effort, they aren't the one for you.
May 24, 2025
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đSave your energy, donât focus too much on their intentions, actions speak louder than words.
So let them be, never change because you got treated badly, stay nice, treat people good, smile without expecting it in return. some people are just ugly on the inside and you should accept that and move on.
Redefine your boundaries, because not everyone deserves your time.
A lot of people are still projecting their insecurities and have a hard time to just be direct and honest about what they want and need.
I wasted a lot of time and energy trying to save many âfriendshipsâ because i appreciated the person but it was not worth, so i will let them be, but that doesnât mean i will be available once they come back, quite the opposite.
Out of sight out of mind.
If they donât know your worth, block them, ignore their text, archive the conversation, delete the number.
You know why ? Because one day you will meet people who will show you that whatever you were doing to maintain your previous relationships with people was never too much ! Was never clingy !
Be safe ! Love yourself first and focus on your own growth ! Forget those who did you wrong !
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â€ïžthis might be pessimistic, but i think iâve finally learned this lessonâŠ
if you can recognize icky behavior in other people and leave at that first sign, you will have significantly more stable, meaningful relationships of any kind.
do not rationalize their poor behavior and give them the benefit of the doubt. move on.
i wish i started doing this sooner.
if you can recognize icky behavior in other people and leave at that first sign, you will have significantly more stable, meaningful relationships of any kind.
do not rationalize their poor behavior and give them the benefit of the doubt. move on.
i wish i started doing this sooner.
Apr 21, 2025
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đȘ- my lore is interesting
- people enjoy being around me
- my anecdotes are unique
- i donât scare people
- my best is actually good
- i can perform hard tasks
- my confidence isnât a facade
- i am a bundle of joy
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âïžBuilds character, confidence, and discipline. The only person in charge of your mess is you! When you get home you can turn the performance off! Naked time anytime!