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There's actually nothing wrong with this. If your friends are going to a film screening that seems stupid you should go with them because you get to hang out with your friends. If your friends are signing up for an app that nobody will be using in 3 weeks you should sign up because you get to hang out with your friends. Simple as
Apr 13, 2024
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I’m talking collage night I’m talking music trivia I’m talking magazine launches and clothing swaps and workshops and your friends shows even when you don’t really feel like going cause unfortunately you aren’t gonna meet anyone cool if you stay at home make going to stuff your personality
May 15, 2025
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concert? play? Reading? niche movie screening? Rave? Restaurant you want to try? whatever it is, try to wrangle friends if its up their alley (not a pro-antisocial message here) but if it does not work out, take urself! literally worst case scenario absolutely no one gives a fuck best case you make new circumstantial friends. Every one is busy making money and chasing what inspires them to stay here so schedules align once in a blue moon, don’t let that stop you from discovering / enjoying shit.
Feb 21, 2024
This is actually so easy and yet.
You're capable of meeting all of your own needs and when you accept this (and expect this people are just automatically drawn in.
If there's a movie you wanna go see, make the plan to go see it by yourself, and next time you're in a group of people (at work at a bar whateva) share with the group that you're going to see the movie on this date at this time and anyone is free to come.
You'll be surprised at how many people will join on things. And any time anyone doesn't, it's nothing to you bc you were gonna go by yourself anyway.
People are just really scared to invite people to things and even more scared to invite themselves. So just be the person to invite. If they come that's gorgeous if they don't that's also gorgeous you get to see the film either way (or go to the concert or museum or whatev)
Feb 15, 2025
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Get a game of chess in. Bust out the milk frother. No need to get any real work done but there's nothing like floating around your house before work without urgency
Apr 22, 2024
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Do I really have to sell you on a night walk
Apr 14, 2024
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Talking about chess but really you can do this with anything. Nice and humbling.You can also get good at it again if its important to you
Apr 13, 2024