Iām talking collage night Iām talking music trivia Iām talking magazine launches and clothing swaps and workshops and your friends shows even when you donāt really feel like going cause unfortunately you arenāt gonna meet anyone cool if you stay at home make going to stuff your personality
May 15, 2025
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these two things have been huge for helping me get a healthy level of community. oh thereās an event that looks cool that you saw on socials? go. donāt have anyone to go with? didnāt ask. youāll meet cool people there.
someone is putting on something or invited you to come with them to something? youāre going. oh you donāt know that person super well? donāt care. youāre going to get to know them now.
being introverted just means you need a balance of socializing and solitude, but you donāt get community in isolation. if a door opens to you and it seems cool, donāt deny yourself an experience! approaching it with the mindset of going to build community and meet people and broaden your horizons will get you far.
Nov 23, 2024
For the past few months I have been dragging my introverted self out of the house and doing all kinds of stuff in the world because thatās where the people are. So far I have gotten to the acquaintance stage with a few people and small talk with a lot of people. Even if I donāt become friends with everyone I talk to, itās good socializing practice. Sometimes I make a goal like āstart a conversation with at least 3 peopleā. Tomorrow Iām going to a music video shoot for a band I donāt even like that much just because the opportunity presented itself to me and I can meet people there. I donāt know what the odds are of making a friend, but I know if I spend that time alone, the odds are zero. If I want friends, I have to make it happen.
Jun 29, 2025
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Nightlife is an entire subculture that i feel disconnected from at times. i always have fun when i go out. meeting so many interesting ppl i never wouldāve met otherwise. i should do it more and so should u š«µš½
Nov 1, 2024
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