I’m talking collage night I’m talking music trivia I’m talking magazine launches and clothing swaps and workshops and your friends shows even when you don’t really feel like going cause unfortunately you aren’t gonna meet anyone cool if you stay at home make going to stuff your personality
May 15, 2025
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these two things have been huge for helping me get a healthy level of community. oh there’s an event that looks cool that you saw on socials? go. don’t have anyone to go with? didn’t ask. you’ll meet cool people there.
someone is putting on something or invited you to come with them to something? you’re going. oh you don’t know that person super well? don’t care. you’re going to get to know them now.
being introverted just means you need a balance of socializing and solitude, but you don’t get community in isolation. if a door opens to you and it seems cool, don‘t deny yourself an experience! approaching it with the mindset of going to build community and meet people and broaden your horizons will get you far.
Nov 23, 2024
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Nightlife is an entire subculture that i feel disconnected from at times. i always have fun when i go out. meeting so many interesting ppl i never would’ve met otherwise. i should do it more and so should u 🫵🏽
Nov 1, 2024
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concert? play? Reading? niche movie screening? Rave? Restaurant you want to try? whatever it is, try to wrangle friends if its up their alley (not a pro-antisocial message here) but if it does not work out, take urself! literally worst case scenario absolutely no one gives a fuck best case you make new circumstantial friends. Every one is busy making money and chasing what inspires them to stay here so schedules align once in a blue moon, don’t let that stop you from discovering / enjoying shit.
Feb 21, 2024
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May 13, 2025
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I literally met one of my best friends in NYC day three of being here cause he told me he thought my shirt was cool while I was in an antique store.
May 15, 2025
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I have small scar from an incident in the eighth grade wherein I was making sock puppets and dropped a googlyeye freshly covered in hot glue directly onto my foot
Feb 24, 2025