I definitely feel like this sometimes but most nights I do loveeeee being alone (in front of the TV). To answer your question, Iāve found that socialization ebbs and flows. The most regularly I was seeing all my friends is when we had standing weeknight meetups like trivia on Tuesdays, watching a show together on Wednesdays, etc. My personal sweet-spot for āspontaneousā plans is 2-4 days in advance. Iād text something like āHaving a hard week! Letās do something fun this weekendā then you can gauge from there :) Trivia is a really good one though it brings people out of the woodwork.