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sunday is a rotating movie night, someone else hosts and picks a movie each time. saturdays are for meeting up for a brunch/lunch and watching the new drag race. wednesdays are for trivia, if everyone can make it out. mondays are poetry club.
capitalize on shared interests and make standing plans
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Instead of trying to schedule meetings, I’ve taken to going for a standing weekly or bi-weekly. Scheduling is replaced by skipping for the week. This works because I have a bunch of long term projects with collaborators right now, but it’s also nice because many of these people are friends of mine, so even if we don’t have updates we can just take the hour to catch up. This practice has bled into social life; I’ve now got a handful of monthly dinner dates in rotation.
May 17, 2022
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concert? play? Reading? niche movie screening? Rave? Restaurant you want to try? whatever it is, try to wrangle friends if its up their alley (not a pro-antisocial message here) but if it does not work out, take urself! literally worst case scenario absolutely no one gives a fuck best case you make new circumstantial friends. Every one is busy making money and chasing what inspires them to stay here so schedules align once in a blue moon, don’t let that stop you from discovering / enjoying shit.
Feb 21, 2024
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• museums
• picnic with a book or art project
• bird watching hikes
• book talks + educational panels (yay learning!)
• reading or writing at a cafe outside
• the movies ofc
Apr 28, 2024
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Eating a meal and consuming the tiniest unit of food for each bite. Im talking one piece of rigatoni on a fork and even biting it in half. It is sooo much fun and you savor so much love in the food. Like it gives you the time to relax and enjoy
Feb 22, 2024
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so uniquely intimate — whats more fun than being loved and trusted enough to adventure in another’s shoes. It’s also the right amount of scary and empowering
Feb 20, 2024