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maybe it’s not a bad thing that i wish him well. maybe it doesn’t make me a bad person to not hate him. maybe i don’t need to be hardened and cold to move on. maybe i can be totally, completely done with him AND still care. maybe it’s a good thing that my heart hasn't shrunk in size. maybe….
Feb 22, 2024
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i am still learning this. i try to be an extremely forgiving person (sometimes i struggle); it’s a huge value for me and i don’t want to give that up but i’m still learning how to balance it with boundaries and distance when i need those because i have sometimes been too lax! i keep reminding myself that it’s possible to forgive someone from afar and acknowledge my own feelings/pain even when i understand their situation was not ideal
May 12, 2025
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i have been in situations where it felt like i needed to be the better person for others to think im not hurt. times when i needed to be around people who hurt me really bad in life.
what i learned from that is, some people will never do you dirty again. others will 😂 and when i catch who will hurt me again, i keep them at a distance and don’t invest energy into maintaining anything.
forgiveness should not be guaranteed, and its difficult to have people come in your ear to say you need to forgive in order to move on. no you need ti just set boundaries around people who hurt you and move forward with it. there are so many people back in my college days where mutually things were so bad. will i apologize and forgive them? probably not ill just distance myself from those people and they become an afterthought.
Mar 9, 2025
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I’m not advocating for taking everything lying down, to never speak your mind if you need to. But if you can… Sometimes it’s best to move on and let it be. It’s no use staying angry forever, that leaves you bitter and resentful. Forgiveness feels good.
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im still going!
Mar 22, 2024
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i keep finding myself feeling embarrassed when i post a lot on this app, but im having fun!!! and the genuineness of humans in this weird little online community is filling such a void in me that began to stop believing that people really are Good and Kind.
in other words, i’m grateful for everyone here and i’m going to keep flooding this silly little app with my silly little words
Feb 20, 2024
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this does sound like spring 2022!
Mar 21, 2024