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I’m not advocating for taking everything lying down, to never speak your mind if you need to. But if you can… Sometimes it’s best to move on and let it be. It’s no use staying angry forever, that leaves you bitter and resentful. Forgiveness feels good.
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Sometimes, even though it’s hard, the best thing to do is to just let go and move on, because in the long run it leads to better things.
Jan 11, 2024
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Sometimes one feels pain without injury taking place
Sometimes nothing needs to be healed
You must simply let go of the pain
Feb 5, 2024
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first things first: u never have to forgive someone if u don’t want to. sometimes there is no reason to not move on from a situation, but that’s still your right. you should take all the time u need to make peace with urself and what happened.
my dad once told me that the worst thing you can do to urself is to wish someone else ill will. giving ur energy and thoughts to a situation or person in a way that doesn’t help you process what happened, but only serves to make u upset, is a disservice to urself and ur time. u deserve to be happy and u deserve peace.
look of it as a way of letting go of the negative thoughts and emotions that that situation causes u. forgiving someone doesn’t necessarily mean ur justifying what they did, but instead respecting ur right to be happy. u can forgive someone and still not continue that relationship with them. seeing forgiveness as a way to allow urself to grow past a situation and not define urself by it, instead of as a mandatory ritual after someone has wronged you, has helped me to move past people and situations that have hurt me and kept me from growing.
Mar 8, 2025
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I’m getting a new bed frame today, something bigger with more storage that matches my other furniture. I know I’m really an adult now because I am ECSTATIC about this development.
Three cheers for Facebook Marketplace everybody.
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I was 13 years old and asked for my first ever vinyl for my birthday: Doolittle by Pixies. I had spent the past year developing an obsession with this album that still stands today. You can’t beat a classic.
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Wear and rewear the same clothes until there’s holes in them, and then sew up the holes. Fast fashion demands we stay on top of every fad that comes by and that we shouldn’t repeat the same look twice. THAT is why we have massive landfills of clothes! If you love a piece, wear it until you can’t anymore. That’s a sign you’ve found your own true personal style. Now THAT is fashion.
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