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all of my coworkers are older than me + constantly make comments like, âonce youâre past 30 thereâs no reason to keep trackâ (awesome vibes!)
ok but what if 33 is your jesus year (jesus was 33 when he was crucified on the cross; religious trauma heads rise up). what if 42 is your The Answer to the Ultimate Question of Life, The Universe, and Everything year. THINGS CAN BE FUN
Jan 29, 2024
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im turning 30 this year and im literally so excited... life has never felt as peaceful or made this much sense before. im really looking forward to my 30s and beyond, the hardships still come of course but i am way better equipped to handle them. 20s is/was so stormy and unstable constantly and my mental health was very poor (though i will always struggle in this sector i have way better techniques that i could have only gained through experience!) i feel overall happier and more capable than ever, truly grounded, and ready to keep growing in this direction. i know aging is never super fashionable but in my experience it's been nothing but positive. so don't be afraid if u are someone who feels anxious about it!!!
Feb 3, 2024
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Congrats on making it thru your 20s. I used to be really anxious about turning 30 but I think thatâs because people around our age are using the milestones of yesteryear (having a house, family, etc.) to measure our sense of self worth.
Iâve come to accept that placing any expectations on where you Should Be or what you Should Have by a certain age is an unreasonable and frustrating way to live life. the older you get the easier it is to to radically accept where ur at in life.
Iâve since turned 31 which I think is an even funnier age and I feel like Iâm more relaxed and at peace with myself then ever. I donât really feel confused or like there is anything I need to âfigure out,â which is how I and probably how most people feel in their 20s. i have perspective on life that feels earned thru personal experience and that isnât derived from cultural/intellectual consumption.
Also I think itâs important and liberating to lean in to being âoldâ and âwashedâ and out of touch. Youâre free! Let the kids buy JNCOs. Enjoy yourself. life is short.
Jan 8, 2025
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It feels like more money, more problems. Body parts hurt and donât heal right away. Yeah you have heartburn, a handful of friends, and they all live far away. You question life choices, finally start figuring out what the hell youâre supposed to be doing.
But you also find peace, get more comfortable in your own skin. You can see through the bullshit, can recognize the people who are genuine.
Your 30s are like your 20s. Your brain wonât see the difference, youâll just know when you look around and think âhey, this isnât so badâ.
Jan 8, 2025
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on your personal computer after not using it for quite a while. is crack a downer, girl?
Jan 31, 2024
been on my sleep all day every day of the weekend grind (shout out 2 that bad brain chemistry) but today there was a sliver of sun so i got soup and went and sat in the park. look at the freakin guys i saw. healing in indescribable ways
Feb 3, 2024
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my current fixation is making ambient tracks out of popular songs
Jan 29, 2024