if a man were to ever CLICK HIS FINGERS at me while we were in disagreement i would leave before he could finish.
this might seem a bit obvious, but it's something i think about CONSTANTLY.
recently i have been able to say what these are, in the past i had a hard time naming them cause i tend to let things go fairly easily 1- when people talk about a subject they know nothing about (double irritation pts if its a subject i LOVE) i just think its bizarre to chime in and speak your very obvious opinions like they are facts or to engage in a debate/argument with no information
like at this point why are you even talking 2- when people talk to me like i am stupid
insulting me and calling me a dumb bitch is one thing- talking to me like i am a fucking child will make me explode 3- when people are rude to you with no provocation
this is always so unnecessary and then i gotta choose to breathe and let it go or to ruin your fucking self esteem
real talk frivolous icks tell me more about the ick-haver than the ick giver BUT if there's one thing i've learned: if a man makes a point of verbally approving of the books i own OR keeps QUIZZING ME he may begone
...ego-tripping anyone, basically. Obviously other stuff counts (like cheating, or specifically dating certain races in relationships) but this would be the first sign something is off, for me, for potential friends, partners, or whatever.
who, me? oh yeah. just a healthy snack i grabbed on the go. not a big deal. now watch me throw it up into the air and laugh a little bit. what? oh, this old thing? haha, just an apple. you know me!