...ego-tripping anyone, basically. Obviously other stuff counts (like cheating, or specifically dating certain races in relationships) but this would be the first sign something is off, for me, for potential friends, partners, or whatever.
recently i have been able to say what these are, in the past i had a hard time naming them cause i tend to let things go fairly easily 1- when people talk about a subject they know nothing about (double irritation pts if its a subject i LOVE) i just think its bizarre to chime in and speak your very obvious opinions like they are facts or to engage in a debate/argument with no information
like at this point why are you even talking 2- when people talk to me like i am stupid
insulting me and calling me a dumb bitch is one thing- talking to me like i am a fucking child will make me explode 3- when people are rude to you with no provocation
this is always so unnecessary and then i gotta choose to breathe and let it go or to ruin your fucking self esteem
always an advocate for dishing back and asserting myself back but theres something additive about watching the facade crumble when they realize they cannot impact your mood. bonus points when theyβre being assholes & everybody starts staring bc theyre being unnecessary
Sometimes you try your best and everything seems to hit the fan no matter how much you try, so you take that raincheck and take yourself out for a day.
This is what I call it hahahah made by mums everywhere but the greased up version is sold along stalls in Mumbai. Two regular slices of white bread, buttered, and the middle filling is cream cheese with red onions, coriander/cilantro, tomatoes and some minced chillis. All veggies chopped mini cube size so they blend with the cheese. Toasted crispy.
