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has provided reality checks or just something to bounce back against, can crank out a paragraph of feelings in peak moments of need.
as i have now received as I struggle to sleep
“Here’s the hard truth: if you have to constantly prompt someone to share their inner world, they don’t actually want to share it. Not the way you do. You can’t anxiety-manage your way into someone being more emotionally available.”
EEK!! ☹️
as i have now received as I struggle to sleep
“Here’s the hard truth: if you have to constantly prompt someone to share their inner world, they don’t actually want to share it. Not the way you do. You can’t anxiety-manage your way into someone being more emotionally available.”
EEK!! ☹️
Jul 16, 2025
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