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Listen I get it, it’s hard out there, but that doesn’t mean you get to be a terrible person and blame it on the fact that you’re depressed bro.
Jun 21, 2025
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U don’t need them!! It makes u feel worse
Apr 22, 2025
It fascinates me how a guy could yell at your face, call you the most degrading thing, make you cry and your blood boil only to hours later give a shitty apology like 'I don't have an excuse but I didn't mean what I said' like?? If you were truly sorry you'd reflect and grow from mistakes, rather than making empty promises and repeatedly doing the same thing. And no he's not a man in my book because a real one wouldn't be so belligerent.
'But Emmita it could just be his trauma making him act like this!!' Your trauma does not excuse how badly you treat others and it irks me that people will always try to escape accountability by blaming it on trauma. It does not define you first of all and it should not be your scapegoat.
There are fleeting moments where I fear for my future children, wish for everything I've got that they won't inherit the gene my father has that makes him so horrid. Only when I remind myself that we do not share flesh and blood can I feel the tension in my shoulders go away.
Why should I think I'm selfish for taking time for myself when I spent my life taking care of you?
So please make me the villain in your story, be angry for telling you the truth, be pissed I'm not letting your shit slide; I'd rather be evil than blind to my own actions. Especially when it's under the guise of 'good advice' or 'life experience'. You may praise God almighty, claim you're his favorite but you are by no means a saint, one who is excused.
Why do I cry for you? Why do I go to bed with a guilty conscience? Why was I taught I should?
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self degradation is sometimes the solution (unless you‘re into that sorta thing idk)
May 17, 2025
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That’s true camaraderie in a world full of crazy drivers. Love to see it
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I should at least be able to look at my saved pins and reminisce when I have no wifi and nothing better to do, like cmon guys let me have this one thing
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Going on family vacations is realizing there’s always a curse that’s taken ahold of your family, sometimes your siblings too and it becomes— sadly— your job to break it. But they say if not you then who?
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