Rec | HEAR THEM OUT

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Definitely have a conversation with your friend. It‘ll nag at you if you don’t, you’ll always wonder. Wouldn’t go straight for dumping, sus it out first in an inquisitive way. But it’s not great 🥶

@cemacintyre

1d ago

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always starts with a conversation

if it's your friend you can be gentle but direct. you can explain that you think the common spaces should be respected more, and even offer to help clean it up with them the first time around (though if it's strictly their mess that shouldn't be the norm). honesty is the best policy here, so if it keeps being an issues, have another convo.

@neddy999

Sep 18, 2024

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talk it out

if you're stuck on something it's nice to get a big metaphorical smack across the noggin by a clear-eyed confidante, whether it's a homie or a family member or a therapist that can give you a fresh and radical perspective and stop you from rutting around in the circle of repetitive brooding. If you've been trying to work something out or been engaging in some negative self talk, ask someone to listen for a few mins and then tell you that you're being ridiculous. everyone needs it sometimes.

@Shadowbeni

Aug 22, 2024

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telling a stranger exactly what you’RE THINKING IN THE MOMENT

I mean you are at a bus stop or something and you start small talk with the stranger next to you and then you just tell them the thing that is lurking in the back of your mind, like “you know what? My friend just texted me and she’s spiraling a bit but am I a bad friend for needing space bc I feel like I’m spiraling?”