Drs/medical professionals have seen it allll u donβt need to try present a certain image of yourself to avoid judgement. They also donβt have moral superiority over you so if they do judge you, so what, itβs no different to some random doing the same. (Also there are plenty who will be more understanding so if itβs poss u could try find another if u donβt feel respected)
Also this extends to not avoiding appointments because you havenβt listened to their instructions (eg do sleep hygiene, flossing, exercises). They need to know!
You two should be a team with the same goal, so if you have different priorities re your health, or if there are barriers to improving your health, itβs important and valuable to talk it through together.