i might fall for it sometimes but i’m actively resisting
it’s mine and no one else’s business what i eat so if i’m more conscious of my eating it should at least be under my own control rather than what people on the internet or irl think
i’m not falling for fake concern or judging/policing, literally nothing annoys me more (and i’ve talked about this before) than people online talking saying stuff like ‘i’m just concerned’ or pretending they actually care about people they’re shaming for their weight or what they eat when they’re just doing it to feel superior
2d ago
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Even if it’s hard. Body image stuff always creeps back in as the weather warms up and clothes shrink, and I was sitting here letting myself feel hungry. But I checked Instagram and a long time online friend is most likely dying soon from anorexia and I’m feeling a lot of emotions about it. Getting up to go find something solid and filling to eat in her honor and I hope you do the same. It’s rough out here, especially when stuff is really deep-rooted but I will always rec eating over not, even if I momentarily forget what a good rec that is 💛
May 29, 2025
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and focusing instead on making reasonably healthy, self-compassionate, consistent choices and moving your body in ways that make you feel good.
We’re assaulted with numbers, data, and metrics everywhere else in life why let it creep into your relationship with food and your body!!! It takes time and practice to do this right and find balance without descending into total uninhibited hedonism but it can be freeing to live this way. Controversial perhaps…
Apr 30, 2024
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I recommend saying this if you want to make the office kitchen awkward and watch people laugh uncomfortably while they try to enjoy a bagel. It’s a guaranteed way to make folks feel bad for indulging in life's little pleasures.👍👍👍
Honestly, I don’t know how diet culture became a competition of who can have the most unregulated eating habits :(—it’s not a flex. It just creates shame. My best advice? Eyes on your own plate. Encourage others, set boundaries, and remember: food choices are personal, and they’re theirs alone
Sep 17, 2024
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there’s something so funny about seeing a friend before they notice you cause it’s like a look into what they’re like alone
seeing how they walk when they’re by themselves or their expression when they’re just going about or looking around
Mar 6, 2025
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new album out today!!!! listening rn and i loveeeeee it so cool
May 9, 2025
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got an exam tomorrow that i’m naturally feeling awful about but am i allowed to luck farm 🤲🤲🤲 i need all that i can get
it like an exam for my final grade for the subject for the year so pretty much it could matter but if i don’t badly i’ll say it won’t but the thing that like i’m upfront worried about is having to actually do it like if i sit down and can’t do any of the essay options (theres like 5 to choose from but that’s not as kind as it sounds cause they’re all pretty specific and difficult) that would be like the worst thing ever so yay
May 5, 2025