✂️
cus u shouldn't hurt urself over people who show u time and time again that they don’t care about u! :)
6d ago
Related Recs
🩸
save your energy! telling people how you want to be treated won‘t make them change. if they don’t learn it for themselves by experiencing it, they’re likely to keep doing it.
May 16, 2024
☁️
i have been in situations where it felt like i needed to be the better person for others to think im not hurt. times when i needed to be around people who hurt me really bad in life.
what i learned from that is, some people will never do you dirty again. others will 😂 and when i catch who will hurt me again, i keep them at a distance and don’t invest energy into maintaining anything.
forgiveness should not be guaranteed, and its difficult to have people come in your ear to say you need to forgive in order to move on. no you need ti just set boundaries around people who hurt you and move forward with it. there are so many people back in my college days where mutually things were so bad. will i apologize and forgive them? probably not ill just distance myself from those people and they become an afterthought.
Mar 9, 2025
⚠️
Depends on the intensity of the situation, of course. But protect your peace at all costs. People are intelligent and know when they hurt people, even if it’s just a residual guilt. If they “need to explain their side,“ nine times out of ten they will gaslight you. Trust your gut and don’t fall for mediocrity.
Jan 18, 2024
Top Recs from @mangoweed
if you know, you know. i could talk about this show all day. & shoutout to u if u were watching this back when it was a new show.
May 6, 2025
📱
like i’m never going to download this but thank u for the 20 second trial run
Apr 17, 2025
Apr 7, 2025