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TELL PEOPLE YOU CARE ABOUT THAT THEY HURT YOU AND YOU ARE ANGRY AT THEM
Sucks that they hurt you. Good that you are angry. Even better that you are talking about it so that it doesn't repeat itself. And if they do hurt you again, at least you've learnt more about what kind of person they are.
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@jahnneke
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@chronicwebuser
i did this with someone i thought really cared about me after they made me feel like dog shit. they basically gaslit me and explained 60 different reasons why i wasn’t right before finally apologizing. madness. i’m glad i know how they act in those situations before we got any closer or i trusted them any deeper.
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@jahnneke
@CHRONICWEBUSER Which is why it's so important to do! Really glad you did so and got to learn this soon in ur relationship. I've been having loads of hard conversations lately with many unsatisfactory responses but at least I now know what to expect and can decide on how to go from there
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tell them what they did wrong
that u may spare others from indignity
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