i could go on about this for days on end because i think there’s similarities between this and the way some people treat influencers and small musicians online now
May 29, 2025
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Ye I kinda get you.
2020 quarantine phase and 2022(for personal reasons) phase were the best and worst. I loved having the bits of communication squeezed out of my peers online, but I’ve been struggling with parasocial relationships(kinda?) ever since.
Every new chapter of my life I open, constantly ends with me obsessing with one or another person that I wanna befriend.
Except instead of asking to hang out irl, I try to impress them via socials, since throughout my teenage-hood I was isolated for one reason or another T_T
So my page looks overly-curated oftentimes, and you can tell exactly when the switch happens, haha
May 30, 2025
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If you want this app to be real and authentic get real and authentic people on here. i’m tired of celebrities, im tired of rich people being out of touch and posting it online. i’m tired of fan culture and celebrity worship. these people are your enemy.
May 30, 2025
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I genuinely think i’m an online personality and if i keep posting like it, it will just only become real. manifestation works like that and i fuck with it. influencer spring idfk
Apr 19, 2025
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1. firstly, i think watching youtubers who spend a lot of time alone can help, it can give you an idea of how to spend the alone time you have
2. secondly, alone time is really good for getting to know yourself and what you like/dislike, it also gives you a chance to think without any outside noise (people)
3. thirdly, alone time doesn’t have to be boring at all! spending time alone is really good for independence as i think it can help with becoming more self reliant
4. keep in mind that a lot more people do things alone than you realise - examples include solo shopping, going to art galleries or events alone, eating out alone and you might have seen someone when you’re out who’s doing something alone but you’ve not realised mainly because it’s very normal
- go on walks and pick a new album to listen to or a new artist each time
- start watching a film or tv show, you could make your own cinema experience by eating popcorn and snacks and wrapping up in blankets
- do some journaling, scrapbooking or collaging, junk journaling is so fun and put on some music in the background to make it even more relaxing
- watch how to videos for creative projects, this is random but theres so many videos on origami etc and other types of paper craft, i made pipe cleaner flowers not too long ago and they‘re very easy to make
- watch something in another language, i love kdramas and watching them takes my mind off things mainly because i have to concentrate on the subtitles
Jan 13, 2025
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genuinely finding it difficult to scroll and see endless hauls, what happened to rewearing stuff and repurposing things? i hate to sound mean but it’s really annoying to see the same consumption patterns all the time :( if anyone has any recommendations for people who create fashion content outside excessive consumption please lmk
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