people love to indulge and opening up about those indulgences without judgement is a great way to build trust and a stronger bond :)
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people usually jump at the opportunity to share things they enjoy and you’ll get to learn a lot more about them <3
May 28, 2025
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Underrated conversation starter. I had an amazing conversation about this with someone yesterday. We learned a lot about each other and even got to talk about favourite fruits and artificial flavourings (i.e.: I love peach-flavoured stuff, she’s a citrus girlie).
Also BONUS: you get to memorize people’s little treats and surprise them with yummy things sometimes 😋🫶🏼💕🥳
Apr 3, 2024
I love to ask what people are currently “in to” - meaning current inspirations, fixations, interests, etc.
1. It’s subtle but revealing- I now know what you are interested in and get a hint at how you view life (ex. some interests can be perceived as narcissistic/surface level vs. thoughtful/curious) *Granted, not eveyone will have a good answer (or may not even be able to answer) and that will tell you all you need to know!!
2. Naturally we love to talk about ourselves and our passions so it will certainly keep the conversation going. Extra points for asking questions about what they say (maybe you’re interested, maybe you’re not- but at least it’s not awkward anymore)
May 22, 2025
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mulatu astake is a visionary and everyone should listen to Tezeta (nostalgia) at least once in their lives
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