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For so many women men are the focal point of their social lives. Decenter them!!! Focus on your girls!!! Spend time with your sister and your mom and your girls!! Regularly hang out with just women and without the intent of interacting with men! When you have healthy and nurtured female relationships you won't seek out male attention as much and won't settle for subpar men. The patriarchy is based on men being the focus of our lives. The best way to beat it is to LOVE YOUR GIRLS!!
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ok maybe I shouldn't be so gender specific but hear me out. idk what it is but men will have exactly what they want in front of them. a cookie, a job, a woman, ANYTHING. if it comes in a way that feels slightly "too easily" to them they won't accept it. Vs: I find that most women live in an abundance mindset and are often open to receiving. And then women are taught things like "Men love bitches. Be hard to chase etc." which there's so much truth to that. Yeah, a healthy level of unavailability fosters attraction. But I think theres a deeper issue here and i'm only speaking on it because I find that I often become a symptom of a man's self deprivation.
To me it seems Men feel if there's no level of aggressive struggle or hardship to get the thing they want it's either "not real" or "they can't have it because they'll lose it too fast." It makes me question if it's a level of social media's illusion of options? How we as a society accept good things that arrive to us? At what level is chasing something and fighting so relentlessly that it's "enough" for your satisfaction and sense of reward and it feels valid?
shit drives me crazy.
I know you guys will cook me for this opinion but curious on your take.
May 10, 2025
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am I right fellas
Mar 8, 2025
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‘alpha males’ can go fall off a cliff.
like, excuse me?
i only want you if you’re OBSESSED with me??? tf out of here with your nonchalance??????
i want you to not be able to breath, eat, or SLEEP because im the only thing occupying your mind???
why would i want a you to play hard to get?? if you’re not giving gomez addams energy then why are you here?
i want my name to be your last breath and i want my smile to be the light you crave when you’re alone in the dark.
don’t tell me about the other girls that want you because idgaf.
alpha male philosophy is the dumbest shit i’ve ever heard of—your partner should be your best friend until the end, not your maid or your child incubator
Feb 17, 2025
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as a professional t-shirt hoarder I always run out of places to store my t-shirts. Bought one of those storage things for the backs of doors usually meant for shoes. rolled them up as tight as possible and shoved them in color coordinated. Can sort of fit 2 shirts in one spot too. also makes it easier to make an "outfit" (t-shirt and pants of the day) cause I can see them all very easily.
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turns your plastic waste into a brick you can use for building or just to reduce the size of your waste
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Late night picnic and no candles? I put my phone flashlight under the wine bottle for a lamp.
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