My grandpa taught me what masculinity can look like. While my dad embodied toxic masculinity - aggressive, sexist, fragile - my grandpa always modeled the gentler and nurturing side of what a man or AMAB person can be. He was always patient when teaching me new skills and hobbies, including when he helped me earn my HAM radio license at 13. He also instilled in me a love of knowledge and learning that I carry with me to this day.
I feel so fortunate to have my grandpa in my life and to have had his influence become a part of me.
