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FLOPPING
Guys I hung out with a boy and I tried so hard to be cool and fun but I think I flopped. I had a good time but I just think I flopped. It’s ok to flop sometimes. Everything is going to be ok. ♥️
The good thing is that I was so scared to do it and I faced my fears. Hopefully someday I will meet someone who will want to see me more than one (1) time.
This one goes out to all of my nervous girlies <3 I see u and I am u
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@valoorie
May 2, 2025
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@bee1000
Wait a sec. If you had fun, how did you flop?
May 3, 2025
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@valoorie
@BEE1000 see I wasn’t sure if he had fun so I felt as though I flopped !! But it was a success nonetheless (and it’s even more awesome because he does want to hang out again) !!
May 3, 2025
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@justagirl
This is actually so inspiring
May 3, 2025
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@valoorie
@JUSTAGIRL YAY I’m so glad !! Face your fears always <3
May 3, 2025
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@flop
Life is all about flop. Take it from me
May 3, 2025
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@valoorie
@FLOP OMG hi flop <3
May 3, 2025
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@mossyelfie
Not a flop because you were brave! And you had fun!!! Way to go!!!
May 2, 2025
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@valoorie
@MOSSYELFIE I keep trying to tell myself this, thank you!!!! Gotta stay positive in these trying times 😭🫶
May 2, 2025
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@deardoveswings
i can’t say much be i do not have a beau (and that’s ok!) but trying to be the fun girlie def got me stuck in situations with guys i didn’t like all too much. not to be cliche but the right guy will think you’re cool and fun even when you’re a little nervous.
May 2, 2025
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@valoorie
@DEARDOVESWINGS this is so true. It’s really tough when I’ve never been able to see someone more than once. It can be hard not to blame myself for that, but in due time it’ll happen for me !! I hope !! <3
May 2, 2025
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