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SENDING THAT RISKY TEXT/DM OR FULL SENDING A PHONE CALL

Because you’re going to get your answer one way or another ! Stop holding yourself back from living CRAZY , intense , and REAL. only way To be a winner is to be an absolute LOSER sometimes. Idc how bad I feel about not getting a response at least I won’t be on a rocking chair wishing I Said more… Also in: telling your crush you like them , weight lifted off your soul

@madmaxx1e

Apr 17, 2025

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sending a text, then turning on dnd and not checking until the morning

not doing this as much anymore these days, but the thrill this brings can't be matched by anything else. send that risky/regrettable text. then live in ignorance for 12-24 hours. it'll give your body time to forget why it needs to be nervous, and then you'll stumble across the text back when you least expect it. foolproof

@stellate

Mar 1, 2024

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sending a risky text and then giving up forever

time of death: 🕰️

@ownerofyourfantasy

Mar 27, 2025

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NOT MASKING YOUR BAD BEHAVIOR WITH THERAPY TERMINOLOGY

My friend today asked me an amazing question. He said, “Do you think the avoidance thing is specific to our generation or LA specific? Like is someone in Arkansas thinking about anxiety?” Obviously yes someone in Arkansas is thinking of anxiety haha but it made me really think. Our generation is HORRIBLE (me included) at facing shit and taking accountability. It’s all masked underneath this ”therapy talk” shit. Hear me out. Let’s say you have a friend and you’re feeling conflict/tension with them. After a few weeks of them being mean, you confront them about it. They’re passive and not addressing their actions. We would INSTANTLY write them off as “AVOIDANT” versus “A friend who’s hurting me by being shitty even if they don’t intend to.” And yes, that friend is being “avoidant”. But, that’s a simple write off for behavior. Behavior has been so quickly written off to fit into this Therapy Talk. Here’s another example: A girl who really likes someone is attaching to them quickly because she’s excited to get to know them and is having so much fun, she’s moving faster than usually and trying to rush commitment. Society would consider her “Anxiously attached” versus “This girl is really into this person and it’s shifting her choices and actions.“ I think what i’m getting at is, it seems dismissive and avoidant to just simplify these big feelings and actions into these terms when in reality, yes the terms are true. But, we should probably be making space to really talk and express in full detail a persons actions including our own, and get to the bottom of it. The categories can be apart of the larger narrative, but they arent the full reasoning. I hope this made sense lol

@courtnipoe

Nov 27, 2024

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leaving

anything and everything anytime whenever planned or not

@courtnipoe

Mar 9, 2025

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MEN AND BECOMING A SYMPTOM OF THEIR SELF DEPRIVATION

ok maybe I shouldn't be so gender specific but hear me out. idk what it is but men will have exactly what they want in front of them. a cookie, a job, a woman, ANYTHING. if it comes in a way that feels slightly "too easily" to them they won't accept it. Vs: I find that most women live in an abundance mindset and are often open to receiving. And then women are taught things like "Men love bitches. Be hard to chase etc." which there's so much truth to that. Yeah, a healthy level of unavailability fosters attraction. But I think theres a deeper issue here and i'm only speaking on it because I find that I often become a symptom of a man's self deprivation. To me it seems Men feel if there's no level of aggressive struggle or hardship to get the thing they want it's either "not real" or "they can't have it because they'll lose it too fast." It makes me question if it's a level of social media's illusion of options? How we as a society accept good things that arrive to us? At what level is chasing something and fighting so relentlessly that it's "enough" for your satisfaction and sense of reward and it feels valid? shit drives me crazy. I know you guys will cook me for this opinion but curious on your take.

@courtnipoe

21h ago