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i am recovering from what may be my worst breakup yet but i dragged my ass back home to baltimore to spend easter (and what would have been our one year anniversary [lol]) with family and friends. i am very glad i didn't choose to spend it wallowing and spiraling in bed. taking my own advice of refusing to isolate and damn it was i correct that one time
Apr 20, 2025
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β€οΈgoing out with friends, seeing family, etc. might sound like too much for your body and mind during this time but i have always found it much too hard to Not think about people i've lost when i'm alone. dont let yourself fall into a trap of loneliness just because that's what you're feeling. surround yourself with others who love you (there are plenty!) whenever feasible. talk to them about it, or dont; whatever you think will help you. there have always been moments when i am with loved ones after a breakup when i can go even just 5 extra minutes without thinking about it than i would have sitting at home by myself, which is valuable even if you start thinking about it again immediately after. i dont suggest this in. a "just dont think about it" way, as that is impossible and silly, but i do think it helps to speed along the healing process. love is like a home remedy and u still have it all around u. hang in there!!!!
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πItβs been almost a month and Iβve finally taken down her pictures from my walls. Itβs such a confusing thing to know this person better than I know anything or anyone, and suddenly to be cut off from her. still, Iβm so lucky to be surrounded by amazingly supportive and loving friends β I would be in a sorry state if not for them.
Mar 18, 2025
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πinstead of trying to change how i feel about it, i let myself mourn what once was. i give myself the space and kindness to cry. i cry in the car, in my room, and in the shower. then after a couple days i get back on my feet and hangout with the people who i know love me through and through. they remind me that no matter what the other person said, that i am worthy of love, respect, and their time π«
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this is a dual rec for a small spot in San Antonio on the Riverwalk called Hugman's Oasis..... wonderful time in there... really good cocktails, pricey bar snacks but when u are drinking and in love who really cares
this is a dual rec for a small spot in San Antonio on the Riverwalk called Hugman's Oasis..... wonderful time in there... really good cocktails, pricey bar snacks but when u are drinking and in love who really cares
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π§they're just some guy. but they're also cute and nice and make u feel admired and don't judge u for all the things u judge urself for. u can show them all your favorite things and learn all of theirs and also u can kiss them