As an 18 year old girl, I don't really see 25 as weird and old. There's probably less of a gap than you think there is. If you're chatty and friendly there shouldn't be any issues. Ask about more than just college or sports. You've got this!
Apr 9, 2025

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i wouldnt say im old old but im at the cusp or genz/millennial- more so cause my siblings area all older but i appreciate the positive reassurance✨ i am indeed a child not the chattiest but im by no means cold hearted
Apr 9, 2025

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*and* from my late-30’s perspective—going through my own changes and second guessing myself—I simply must lol. 23 is so young. If I asked this question I’m sure someone in their 40’s/50’s would laugh too. Change is always daunting and it can be hard no matter what, but ā€œtoo oldā€ is fake. Do what you want to do, there are no rules!
Aug 5, 2024
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i went to community college, worked for a year, went to a 4 year university, took a break for my mental health and worked for a year, finished school, was unemployed for a year, now i finally have a big girl job at 26 and i still feel like a child. it's whatever don't worry about it just do your thing. don't force yourself to do stuff you're not ready for and don't hold yourself back if you're ready to move on. Just do your thang
May 29, 2025
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Being in your 30s and 40s isn’t old as you probably picture. Now, if you have a family and a mortgage you’ll have more responsibilities. And your body might not be what it once was. But mentally, I don’t feel different. I completely forget I’m not the same age as people in their 20s when I interact with them. To answer your question, I suggest sorting the things that you only can do when you have fewer responsibilities (traveling for a long stretch, moving to a new city, quitting your job, working out and exercising). Do those things now, and remember you can do a lot in the decades to come, too (e.g., I didn’t start going to concerts until I was 40) (Also, I sincerely apologize to everyone in their 20s who is working their ass off just to get by!)
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