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Stop letting that person talk to you that way. It’s stupid hard, but continuing to be kind to people who aren’t kind to you is bad for your karma. Some people don't deserve your kindness and maybe they even deserve your meanness!
Anyways, blocked someone today and am having complicated feelings but trying to hype myself up because they fucking deserved it!
Anyways, blocked someone today and am having complicated feelings but trying to hype myself up because they fucking deserved it!
Apr 8, 2025
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🗣I used to be very conflict avoidant as a young pup but as an old dog, I’ve embraced the conflict that arises when you need to let a mf know who you are! Part of being boundaried is enforcing those boundaries if they’ve been crossed and that means sticking up for yourself. You gotta let people know when they ought to do better by you, or politely let them know when they got you fucked up, because only then can you re-establish the terms of engagement so you are respected, treated with the kindness and consideration you deserve. If the person is mature enough to be accountable, then they will respond in a reasonable manner to your reasonable request. If the person crashes out, then they are an unreasonable human who doesn’t deserve to have your time or space! You deserve the world — show yourself that by picking you first!!!
Jul 14, 2025
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🔋Save your energy, don‘t focus too much on their intentions, actions speak louder than words.
So let them be, never change because you got treated badly, stay nice, treat people good, smile without expecting it in return. some people are just ugly on the inside and you should accept that and move on.
Redefine your boundaries, because not everyone deserves your time.
A lot of people are still projecting their insecurities and have a hard time to just be direct and honest about what they want and need.
I wasted a lot of time and energy trying to save many “friendships” because i appreciated the person but it was not worth, so i will let them be, but that doesn’t mean i will be available once they come back, quite the opposite.
Out of sight out of mind.
If they don’t know your worth, block them, ignore their text, archive the conversation, delete the number.
You know why ? Because one day you will meet people who will show you that whatever you were doing to maintain your previous relationships with people was never too much ! Was never clingy !
Be safe ! Love yourself first and focus on your own growth ! Forget those who did you wrong !
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💕I can set boundaries with friends and say things bluntly without feeling bad. The constant pressure I put myself under in order to protect the feelings of others is unnecessary. I can't control them so why am I letting them control me? I can stand to be a bit meaner and to the point. I don't have to try to please every person I want to be closer to.
Jun 22, 2024
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🥳Go outside and shake your ass!!! I get everything I want because the universe is on my side!!! I’m the luckiest girl in the world!!!!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
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