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I went home for the weekend and realized just how differently I think about things in relation to my family. Sometimes having difficult conversations are exactly that-- difficult. But I also think that they're immensely helpful, we can be so biased towards family because we love them so much, but sometimes we have to be able to hold them accountable of their toxic mindset. It's not to say that I love my family any less, it's just to say that we can't put the people we love dearly on a pedestal; especially because it hurts even more when they sometimes disappoint us. Love deeply, but-- sometimes-- love cautiously too!
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😮sometimes you just gotta get it out and be like "yo are we still vibing or nah" you know??? all the homies love a "clear is kind" moment-- being clear is the kindest thing you can do and sometimes that's really hard <3
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🫂I got sat down by three of my best friends a few weeks ago about my overall attitude / humor / sarcasm. They said they could tell that life was weighing on me in a way that was making me more cynical, meaner and combative. It was hard hear that from friends. One of them hit me with a zinger — “We don’t think it’s any concern to your life as a husband or dad today, but we’re scared it might be in the future.” — BRUTAL. But they were right. Work was really weighing on me in a negative way and I needed a wake up call. It was stern and loving. And I’m thankful for them and their initiative to approach me about it. Here’s to getting better + really accepting their thoughts as valid and working through them.
Apr 14, 2025
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🚗That’s true camaraderie in a world full of crazy drivers. Love to see it
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💭I should at least be able to look at my saved pins and reminisce when I have no wifi and nothing better to do, like cmon guys let me have this one thing
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🚫Listen I get it, it’s hard out there, but that doesn’t mean you get to be a terrible person and blame it on the fact that you’re depressed bro.