ik it's sort of a given but just do it! I started learning guitar yesterday because I wanted too, not because anyone else does it, not because it's "trendy" to play guitar, but because I wanted to. it's liberating when you stop thinking about what other people might think about what you do, because it's nothing to do with them!!! also don't let anyone else say its performative because you know it isn't, so don't take it from someone who has no idea what they are talking about!!