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Gifts you can eat or drink

A bucket of Haribo candies, macarons, Japanese Kit Kats, fancy mail order fruit, hunks of chocolate, coffee Also books and other physical media Earrings or bracelets or rings Candles Weed Cashmere socks A haunted doll from a flea market Silly Christmas sweater Knives Make up Electric toothbrush If you like your family, ask to do something together such as go to a movie Scarf A teddy bear A teddy Fancy shampoo Tarot deck Roller skates Lego Portable phone battery Very small diamond Kittens

@bee1000

Nov 17, 2024

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Something they’ll use, but wouldn’t buy themselves

I love to give gifts, and I think the best/most consistent formula for a gift someone will really love is something they’ll use, but wouldn’t splurge on for themselves— so if they enjoy coffee, a nice french press or Chemex along with a good bean subscription, or even a Moka pot and milk frother for espresso drinks at home— this formula works for most occasions, and relies on knowing the person/couple. Some good standbys that I get often are: a good set of bathrobes; bathrobes make getting out of the shower much nicer, but many people wouldn’t get a really good robe for themselves; try Oddbird, Brooklinen, or LL Bean (which you can have monogrammed with a couples new initials) a good vinyl player (if they collect vinyl), or a good set of speakers if they already have a quality turntable but poor speakers, a subscription or service— for my girlfriends I usually buy a facial or a massage that they can schedule whenever, for a couple, maybe a theater subscription, a museum membership, or a couple’s massage— these are things people really enjoy but might not do for themselves, especially in the first year of marriage. I tend to avoid overly customized gifts; if it isn’t something someone wants it may accidentally go unused and is impossible to return or regift.

@nadiyaelyse

Apr 19, 2024

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maybe

when i have no idea what to gift i get candles (cute ones, fresh likable ones), maybe cake, cookies, something engraved with their name to make it a bit more personal 🫀

@fersifers

Apr 18, 2024

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OH YOU THOUGHT THIS WAS A RABBIT?

(they thought this was a rabbit) That's fucking funny bitch it's fucking Winnie the fucking Pooh yeah yeah fuck fourth of july 🖕 🇺🇸 🦅 🐇

@bootybutt

Mar 30, 2025

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MAKE A LIL LIST OF STARTER QUESTIONS, SAVE IT AS A NOTE, PIN IT

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@bootybutt

May 21, 2025

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TAKE THE DAY OFF

if it wont jeopardize your survival fund just do it you deserve it find an excuse that you think they’ll pity, they don’t need to know that you ‘just need a day’ if they are toxic capitalists -

@bootybutt

Apr 14, 2025