Rec
- a bag of rice from your pantry
- bundle of overdried eucalyptus
- a silk scarf, or several pairs of gently used socks
- zippo lighter
- no drip no smoke tapered candles
- assortment of edible seeds in a shaker
- take them out for oyster happy hour, your treat!
- find some relevant to them poems and memorize / recite them to their face with eye contact
Mar 31, 2025
Related Recs
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🎁 A bucket of Haribo candies, macarons, Japanese Kit Kats, fancy mail order fruit, hunks of chocolate, coffee
Also books and other physical media
Earrings or bracelets or rings
Candles
Weed
Cashmere socks
A haunted doll from a flea market
Silly Christmas sweater
Knives
Make up
Electric toothbrush
If you like your family, ask to do something together such as go to a movie
Scarf
A teddy bear
A teddy
Fancy shampoo
Tarot deck
Roller skates
Lego
Portable phone battery
Very small diamond
Kittens
Also books and other physical media
Earrings or bracelets or rings
Candles
Weed
Cashmere socks
A haunted doll from a flea market
Silly Christmas sweater
Knives
Make up
Electric toothbrush
If you like your family, ask to do something together such as go to a movie
Scarf
A teddy bear
A teddy
Fancy shampoo
Tarot deck
Roller skates
Lego
Portable phone battery
Very small diamond
Kittens
Rec
🤍I love to give gifts, and I think the best/most consistent formula for a gift someone will really love is something they’ll use, but wouldn’t splurge on for themselves— so if they enjoy coffee, a nice french press or Chemex along with a good bean subscription, or even a Moka pot and milk frother for espresso drinks at home— this formula works for most occasions, and relies on knowing the person/couple. Some good standbys that I get often are:
a good set of bathrobes; bathrobes make getting out of the shower much nicer, but many people wouldn’t get a really good robe for themselves; try Oddbird, Brooklinen, or LL Bean (which you can have monogrammed with a couples new initials)
a good vinyl player (if they collect vinyl), or a good set of speakers if they already have a quality turntable but poor speakers,
a subscription or service— for my girlfriends I usually buy a facial or a massage that they can schedule whenever, for a couple, maybe a theater subscription, a museum membership, or a couple’s massage— these are things people really enjoy but might not do for themselves, especially in the first year of marriage.
I tend to avoid overly customized gifts; if it isn’t something someone wants it may accidentally go unused and is impossible to return or regift.
a good set of bathrobes; bathrobes make getting out of the shower much nicer, but many people wouldn’t get a really good robe for themselves; try Oddbird, Brooklinen, or LL Bean (which you can have monogrammed with a couples new initials)
a good vinyl player (if they collect vinyl), or a good set of speakers if they already have a quality turntable but poor speakers,
a subscription or service— for my girlfriends I usually buy a facial or a massage that they can schedule whenever, for a couple, maybe a theater subscription, a museum membership, or a couple’s massage— these are things people really enjoy but might not do for themselves, especially in the first year of marriage.
I tend to avoid overly customized gifts; if it isn’t something someone wants it may accidentally go unused and is impossible to return or regift.
Apr 19, 2024
Rec
✨when i have no idea what to gift i get candles (cute ones, fresh likable ones), maybe cake, cookies, something engraved with their name to make it a bit more personal 🫀
Apr 18, 2024
Top Recs from @bootybutt
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🗣here are some of mine
“Is there anything you’re kind of obsessed with lately? Like a book, place, habit, or something random?”
“Have you learned anything bizarre lately? Something that kinda blew your mind?”
“If you could do anything this weekend, no obligations, what would your ideal day or Sunday look like?”
“Has anyone ever told you that you favor a celebrity?”
“If this event had a secret theme, what do you think it would be?”
“Do you ever get told you have ‘a vibe’? Like someone tries to describe you as an era or an aesthetic?”
“What’s a small thing that would instantly make your day better?”
“I wonder if they’re going to make us do icebreakers. What’s the weirdest or most fun one you’ve ever had to do?”
“Is there anything you’re kind of obsessed with lately? Like a book, place, habit, or something random?”
“Have you learned anything bizarre lately? Something that kinda blew your mind?”
“If you could do anything this weekend, no obligations, what would your ideal day or Sunday look like?”
“Has anyone ever told you that you favor a celebrity?”
“If this event had a secret theme, what do you think it would be?”
“Do you ever get told you have ‘a vibe’? Like someone tries to describe you as an era or an aesthetic?”
“What’s a small thing that would instantly make your day better?”
“I wonder if they’re going to make us do icebreakers. What’s the weirdest or most fun one you’ve ever had to do?”
May 21, 2025
Rec
(they thought this was a rabbit)
That's fucking funny bitch it's fucking Winnie the fucking Pooh
yeah yeah
fuck fourth of july 🖕 🇺🇸 🦅 🐇
That's fucking funny bitch it's fucking Winnie the fucking Pooh
yeah yeah
fuck fourth of july 🖕 🇺🇸 🦅 🐇
Mar 30, 2025
Rec
🌞get you some app-operated light bulbs and set them to fade on instead of a noise alarm, or wake up with the sunrise.
i remember all my dreams and my circadians are finally in rhythm 🥁 no bad mood mornings for me
i remember all my dreams and my circadians are finally in rhythm 🥁 no bad mood mornings for me
Jun 10, 2025