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when i don’t tell anyone im trying something new, it makes me focus harder like im the only one accountable for the progress i make
if i tell ppl then i look for validation at like every step and it’s annoying
idk weird
if i tell ppl then i look for validation at like every step and it’s annoying
idk weird
Mar 21, 2025
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🚫I’m gonna start doing this. Idk when but I am gonna start and I need you guys to keep me accountable. I keep telling. No more telling.
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🌠i spontaneously changed my entire career plans and i’m so excited about but haven’t told the people im closest to yet. IDK WHY. probably like fear of failure or something. but strangers don’t rlly care about your success. i mentioned my new plans to 3 randos today and they were soooo happy for me. i love strangers and they’re really not so strange
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😶i think it's okay to talk about stuff you're working on, but there is something to be said about moving in relative silence, especially when you're just starting out. personally, i dont like talking about anything until i have some momentum built up, and then i might give people general updates.
there's also a difference between discussing things with a confidant or advisor and talking about it on social media. having one or two people you can run ideas/hopes/dreams/updates by is necessary for your sanity and progress. people who yap about stuff on twitter rarely have the goods imo.
there's also a difference between discussing things with a confidant or advisor and talking about it on social media. having one or two people you can run ideas/hopes/dreams/updates by is necessary for your sanity and progress. people who yap about stuff on twitter rarely have the goods imo.
Jun 24, 2024
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makes me feel fancy and stuff; also gimme recs on what i should try for snack future snack plates :)
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🥪literally the only thing i wanna eat rn with a big ass bag of sunchips and a fruit punch arizona
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♥️there are two types of solo dates i go on:
one, where i sit with myself like at a restaurant/cafe i wanted to try or a movie i really wanted to see to enjoy it how i want to
or two, where i surround myself with a new community so i feel less alone but I AM alone bc no one knows me
options for one: movies, cafe/restaurant, library, thrifting, doing art outside, spa day, making a new meal at home, getting a sweet treat
options for two: cooking classes, gym/zoomba classes, book clubs, pottery, hiking groups, escape rooms
these are off the top of my head but enjoy yourself love there’s no one better to have fun with than yourself !
one, where i sit with myself like at a restaurant/cafe i wanted to try or a movie i really wanted to see to enjoy it how i want to
or two, where i surround myself with a new community so i feel less alone but I AM alone bc no one knows me
options for one: movies, cafe/restaurant, library, thrifting, doing art outside, spa day, making a new meal at home, getting a sweet treat
options for two: cooking classes, gym/zoomba classes, book clubs, pottery, hiking groups, escape rooms
these are off the top of my head but enjoy yourself love there’s no one better to have fun with than yourself !