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Wife & I are currently beefing. It’s (objectively) her fault but I’ve (objectively) been a douche to her about it. I am reaching the point where I might do the ā€œbig hug from behind and kiss on the cheekā€ thing as an offering. It’s never fun to have an argument exist for longer than it should. Wish me luck.
Mar 14, 2025

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Wishing you luck dude! I think Harriet Lerner said something to the tune of it's more important to do right than to be right (sourced needed). She has a rule about apologies where you apologize for your part of spat even if the other person can't see what they did wrong (I love this BrenƩ Brown podcast ep: https://brenebrown.com/podcast/harriet-lerner-and-brene-im-sorry-how-to-apologize-why-it-matters-part-1-of-2/)
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