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I watched a youtube video recently called “How trying became cool again” and i couldn’t recommend it more. In 2020 i think we reached a peak of being ourselves without embarrassment playing a factor in it. However as much as i love my phone i know social media has ruined being “carefree“ Every 3rd video you see is a far away POV of some random person living their life and someone making fun of it. It certainly makes me scared to express myself but this video highlights some of the biggest artists started putting effort in their craft again, started maybe looking less than perfect again all for the sake of their art. i hope to see the culture shift and we can highlight being a bit cringe again being whoever we want to be
Mar 11, 2025

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I’m the oldest Gen Z (27) and I got on this bandwagon that started about maybe two years ago about this immense hater vibe for millennials and the stuff they liked/did back in the day. honestly, people still hate on others for just being apart of a generation. I was a preteen at that time so maybe I’m cringing at my preteen self but like damn, irony and mockery is so popular. I’ve taken a step back and just thought how many people my age can be so callous.
Mar 11, 2025
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@BENNYLIQUID people seem to not know that the wheel of time is also coming for them. there’s a hater for everything out there no matter what so no point in trying to perform in a perfect way because it’s never enough. glad you’ve been able to take a step back and realize it’s your life and you’re in control here regardless!!
Mar 11, 2025
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nathan zed has been out here for so many years making quality stuff throughout internet eras. glad to see him out here still
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This is a good essay
Mar 11, 2025
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@LUCIUS the video does it so much more justice but it’s such an interesting concept to me. he compares a lot of old cultures versus now and how much it really has just killed life
Mar 11, 2025
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@KYBIES I was referring to both. Good intro by you and the video makes great observations.
Mar 11, 2025
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You can embed links to posts!! The little 🔗 icon
Mar 11, 2025
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@GRAPE thank you!! i just did, im new to this app so getting around to all the features still : D
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@KYBIES yeah I saw you joined like yesterday and figured you had no clue lol
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@GRAPE haha i appreciate the grace period
Mar 11, 2025

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